My Soulmate and I Speak the Same Mind Language!

My Soulmate and I Speak the Same Mind Language!

There’s nothing more wonderful than being able to communicate with your significant other in a way that seems almost psychic. When two people can finish each other’s sentences or know exactly what the other is thinking without saying a word, it’s a special bond that just can’t be replicated.

And that’s exactly how it is with me and my soulmate. We speak the same mind language, and it’s hilarious and wonderful all at the same time.

What is Mind Language?

Mind language is the term we use to describe a type of communication that happens without words. It’s the little nuances and behaviors that we do that give away what we’re thinking or feeling. Sometimes it’s a look, a gesture, or a facial expression.

It’s that little twitch in your eyebrow that says “I’m not happy with that” or the way she bites her lip when she’s thinking hard. It’s these little things that help us understand each other on a deeper level, without having to say anything at all.

When Did We Realize We Speak the Same Mind Language?

We realized we were communicating on a different level a few weeks into our relationship. We were out to lunch, and I was thinking about ordering a dessert. Before I could say anything, my soulmate looked at me and said, “You want the chocolate cake, don’t you?”

I was blown away. How did she know? I hadn’t even mentioned it. But somehow, she just understood.

From then on, we started to notice that we were always on the same wavelength. We’d finish each other’s sentences, or we’d know exactly what the other was thinking without having to say anything.

How Our Mind Language Saves Us Time

One of the best things about speaking the same mind language is that it saves us a lot of time. In situations where other couples might have to explain what they’re thinking or feeling, we can skip all that and just get to the point.

For example, when we’re trying to decide where to go for dinner, we don’t have to have the whole “I don’t know, where do you want to go?” conversation. We already know what the other person likes, so we can narrow down our options quickly.

But Sometimes It Gets Us in Trouble

Of course, speaking the same mind language isn’t always a good thing. Sometimes we’re so on the same page that we forget to actually say what we’re thinking, and that can lead to misunderstandings.

For example, one time we were at a party, and I saw my soulmate talking to a guy I didn’t like. Instead of actually saying, “Hey, I don’t like that guy,” I just gave her a certain look. She understood what I meant, but later on, she told me that she had been confused at the time.

We’ve learned that we need to be careful, because assuming that the other person knows what we’re thinking can be dangerous.

Why It’s So Hilarious

One of the funniest things about speaking the same mind language is the way it plays out in everyday situations.

For example, sometimes we’ll be watching TV, and a commercial will come on for a product we both think is stupid. Without saying anything, we’ll both roll our eyes at each other. It’s like we’re in on a secret joke that no one else understands.

Or, we’ll be at a dinner party, and someone will say something really pretentious. We’ll shoot each other a certain look, and we’ll both know that we’re thinking the same thing.

How We’ve Improved Our Relationship

Speaking the same mind language has definitely improved our relationship. We feel like we’re connected on a deeper level than we would be if we were constantly having to explain ourselves to each other.

It’s made us more empathetic, because we can sense when the other person is feeling down or upset without them having to say anything. And it’s made us more patient, because we know that sometimes it takes a little longer for the other person to put their thoughts into words.

Tips for Speaking the Same Mind Language

If you want to start communicating on a deeper level with your significant other, here are a few tips:

1. Pay attention to your body language. Are you giving off any signals that might help the other person understand what you’re thinking?

2. Practice listening without judgment. Sometimes people are afraid to share their true thoughts and feelings because they’re worried about being judged. Try to create a safe space where your partner feels comfortable being honest.

3. Don’t assume that the other person knows what you’re thinking. Even if you’ve been together for a long time, it’s still important to communicate verbally sometimes.

Conclusion

Speaking the same mind language is a wonderful thing. It’s brought me and my soulmate closer together, and it’s made our relationship stronger. But it’s not always easy, and it requires a lot of patience and understanding.

If you’re interested in trying it out with your significant other, start paying attention to your body language and see if you can pick up on any nonverbal cues. And remember, even if you feel like you’re on the same page, it’s still important to communicate verbally sometimes.

References

• Burgoon, J., Guerrero, L. K., Floyd, K. (2016). Nonverbal communication. Routledge.
• Goman, C. K. (2018). The new science of communication: Body language for the digital age. Berrett-Koehler Publishers.
• Pearlman, C., & Gardner, H. (2017). The benefits of nonverbal communication. Harvard Business Review.